wú jìn无尽shuā píng刷屏shí dài时代de的“lián jiē连接”huàn jué幻觉
Many people say social media has brought the world closer: information arrives in seconds, and photos can be seen by many instantly.
But strangely, the people sitting next to us are becoming more like strangers.
When friends come to see you, you are still scrolling on your phone; family members eat together at the same table but each looks at their own screen.
There are many group chats: class groups, work groups, relatives groups... messages keep coming, but real conversations are fewer.
Everyone uses emojis instead of showing care, and forwards instead of sharing thoughts.
Many family conflicts are not loud arguments but neglect: slow replies and distracted attention make people feel "the phone is more important than me."
Children are even more affected: they speak less, look at screens more, stay up late, love playing games, feel tired during the day, and exercise less.
We are also becoming more impatient, feeling ignored if we have to wait even a moment.
Life often involves taking photos before truly experiencing moments.
Now artificial intelligence has arrived; it is convenient, but people may prefer talking to machines that "won't disappoint you."
Actually, we don't need to reject technology but find balance: don't look at phones while eating, don't record videos while walking, spend more time seriously talking with children.
True relationships require attention, not internet speed.